"Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance." -Dave Barry
I am a music nut. I swear, in a former life, I was Aretha Franklin or something. Um, yes, I know she is still alive. And no, I am not nearly as amazing as Aretha. But you know what I mean. I love to belt out songs and sing and dance and rap and just go crazy whenever the music is on. Sure, I don't always hit the right notes, and my dance moves are super corny, but I DON'T CARE. Put a good song on and I can't help myself.
I could probably write hundreds of blog posts about music (and who knows? I just might!)...because there are so many great songs and genres and artists. It's hard to capture all of my tastes in one blog post. However, for this post I am going to focus on HAPPY music. Particularly, silly, goofy, simple music that isn't necessarily deep or beautiful. It doesn't have poignant, touching lyrics. It's just great music with a fun beat that makes me want to get up and shake my butt around.
I notice that when I am dancing, I can't be upset. There is no way I can possibly be sad or feel sorry for myself. All I can do is smile and laugh and sing. It is such a boost to the spirit, it gets the blood flowing, and it's great exercise!
One of my favorite ladies of all time (who is also a former school co-worker) and I used to dance a lot at work. We would just randomly bust out moves in the middle of my office, usually alone...but we also danced in front of other friends at work. We didn't care that we looked silly or that our moves were mostly leftovers from the 1990s (Running Man, anyone?). We just loved dancing together and knowing that we could totally be ourselves around each other. It was our way of decompressing during a stressful day, and it was awesome. When my friend moved on to a new job, I missed so much about her, but the dancing was one of my best memories. As a goodbye gift, she bought me a "boogie button" that I could press whenever I was feeling the urge to shake my groove thang. (Are you reading this, girlfriend? I hope so!) :)
Fast forward a couple of years later, and now I am the one who has moved on from school (for the year, anyway)...and only after a few days of working at the liquor store, I realized that my co-worker that I work with 90% of the time also LOVES TO DANCE LIKE A GOOFBALL! Hooray! We spend a good deal of the day grooving around the store, shaking our booties, and laughing at our silly dance moves. We still manage to work hard, get things done, and stay productive, but we also find ways to make it fun. Honestly, if we had to go through the day staying serious and just going about our business, we would probably rip our hair out by 11:00 every morning. Instead, we make things fun.
The music certainly helps get us in the mood, and a while back, we discovered the BEST radio station. It's called Mike FM (93.7 for all of you folks in Massachusetts) and their claim to fame is that they "play everything." They are not lying, let me tell you! The songs are so random, but if your musical taste is as crazy and diverse as mine, you can really appreciate a station like Mike FM.
My co-worker and I are working on a Mike FM's Greatest Hits CD, which will include our favorite dance tunes that we hear during the week. Here are some of our favorites...whenever they come on, we go crazy and start jumping around and singing along:
Rock Lobster by B-52s
Break My Stride by Matthew Wilder
Physical by Olivia Newton-John
Jungle Love by The Time
Tarzan Boy by Baltimora
You Sexy Thing by Hot Chocolate
Party Train by Gap Band
Wild Thing by Tone Loc
Hold on Tight to Your Dreams by ELO
...and that's just the first volume! :)
So, what's my point? I don't remember...all I can think about is dancing! I guess my point is that music is such an awesome way to influence your mood. In this case, I love fun, upbeat, silly dance tunes to lift my spirits and help me get through the day. I am so lucky that I can basically dance my way through the work day with another fun and crazy lady who shares my wacky sense of humor. This is definitely a sure-fire way to improve my mental health! I highly recommend it to anyone looking for a good time. If you can't dance at work, then try doing it somewhere else--at home, when you wake up or when you get home from work, in the car (I love this!), in the grocery store, walking down the street....whatever. Just dance! I promise you will enjoy it.
QUESTIONS FOR YOU: Are you a crazy dancer like me? If so, tell me some of your favorite fun dance tunes (or, if you have not yet discovered Crazy Dancing, your favorite fun, silly, happy songs)!
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
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I am a Crazy Dancer. I will dance and sing just about anywhere. Work. Home. On a date. Just the other day I was with my roommate in Whole Foods and "Roxanne" was playing as we were shopping and I immediately put my pen to use as my microphone and danced down the aisles looking for whole grains. It was awesome. She laughed and even sang along (a big deal, my roommate is a math/physics person and very shy)! But, good music and good fun is infectious. Some of my favorites right now are "Koop Island Blues" by Koop and "Shake it" by Latin Soul Syndicate (appropriate to the title of this blog!). My feel good list is long and ever changing, but these two are in my top 5 at the moment!
ReplyDeleteI also recommend to all of my weight loss patients that they make themselves a "Feel Good" play list that they can listen to in the car or first thing in the morning when they wake up. One of the most common challenges for extremely obese people is cycles of negative thinking and, as you said, it's impossible to feel anything but good when you're shaking your butt and belting out a song that you love. As a result, I have them use music to interrupt negative thought patterns - it's the single most effective method of changing the mood of just about anyone!
Thanks, Laura! I will definitely check out those songs. I love getting recommendations for new music. I also love your "feel good" mix idea. I am a HUGE mix tape junkie (YES, I will always call them "tapes" LOL) and I love putting together mixes for all different types of moods.
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